Friday, July 26, 2013

Whine and Complain

So I recently became an owner of the sweetest lil shih tzu, Daisy. However, every morning while I am getting dressed for work she goes under my bed and hides because she knows its almost time for me to leave. So, to stop this from happening, I leave her in the living room while I am in my bedroom putting on my clothes. Needless to say, she doesn't like that much. Every morning she scratches the door and whines. So this morning when I come out, I tell her " Honey you put some much unnecessary energy into whining when you know momma would not leave you out here forever. I coming right back." That was such an ah ha moment. God said to me right then. That's the same thing with me. Why do you whine and complain like, I am not coming back. I am not going to leave you there forever. Just sit and be patient. God can use anything or anyone to speak to us! Love our relationship. Have a Great Weekend!

Sweet Lady

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Lately

Lately, ALOT has been going on. God has really been working on me from the inside out. So to say the least it has been HARD. But who said that His way was easy? I want to began to write more here. At least once a week. I can do it! lol <<< self encouragement lol  Anyways, Hope everyone is great and having an even greater day!

Sweet Lady

Friday, April 5, 2013

Irony of Affirmation

We can't truly love until we don't need it. We have to be not just full of love, but over flowing with Gods love. If we are not overflowing with love we will just need more and more of it to be satisfied. Which no human can ultimately satisfy. Only God can. Receive Gods love and pour out His overflow onto others.

Jesus died on the cross so that we don't have to need anyone to affirm us. The ultimate sacrifice. That's what love is anyways (if we are doing it Gods way). If we are not willing to sacrifice or risk then we are not ready to love. We have to be willing to take a risk that the love we give will not be reciprocated. Love and fear don't go hand in hand. We all fear and that won't change, but when we operate in love we do it despite the fear we may feel on the inside.


We have to get to the place where Gods love is enough and are content regardless of our circumstances. When we don't need the love of others that is when our "cup" will overflow with His love and we can finally pour out His love.


Have a great weekend!

Love,

Sweet Lady

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Crying to God



I am learning that we have to put ALL of our expectations in God. He wants us to come to Him for everything. Sometimes we just need to have a cry session with God. Instead of crying and whining to people that can never meet all of our expectations.

Learning to put our full expectations in God through prayer is essential. Hard but essential. However, when we do this we have to leave it up to God to decide what and whom he decides to bless us through. Doing this will allow us to live the life of peace God intended us to.

Prayer and spending quality time with Him is vital.

Love,

Sweet Lady

Monday, February 25, 2013

Everything isn't what it SEEMS!!!




Recently, God has been revealing to me that everything is NOT always what it seems. So often we look at other people's life and think, “WOW they seem so happy” or “They have it all”. They have the perfect job, house, car, husband, if only I could have that. But, what God has been revealing to me is that you don't know what Hell they may have going on behind closed doors.

God is funny. Most times, the very things that I am praying for He won't give it to me right away(Only In His own time). But, what He will do is start to bless my friends and family with those exact things (This has taught me to be humble and how to be genuinely happy for others). He always puts in my spirit, "I'm saving the best for last". I love when He drops little nuggets in my spirit like that. He is the best friend a girl could have!  He always comes through and proves himself faithful and trustworthy.

I say this to say, don't envy or idol  what other people seem to have because you have NO IDEA what HELL they may be going through behind closed doors. Idol God and then all things will fall into place for you. (Matthew 6:33)

Friday, January 4, 2013

New Year's Blessings

Happy New Year!

Here is a listing of 2012 quotes that I took down in the notepad of my Iphone throughout the year. I do not have as many as last year because this year I began journaling a lot more and spending time with God.

I wish each of you that may read this, a blessed New Year!

*Disclaimer* Please excuse any typos, as I just emailed this to myself to share with you.

Insecurity causes us to focus on ourselves and what we want instead of focusing on Him and what He wants.

Don't try to make it happen. Trust Him to and He'll make it happen.

With every new level your gonna face a new Devil-jm (Joyce Meyer)

Your faith is not to keep u from tough times but to allow u to remain stable through tough times-JM


We shouldnt be trying to get victory we already have it through God who lives within us! Jm

A person without self-control
is like a city with broken-down walls. (Proverbs 25:28 NLT)


When u know there is nothing u can do just stand a say god is fighting my battles, if u can do something than do it, if not stand-JM

Learn to say I don't have to have my way to b happy-JM

Trade ur questions for trust! -JM

Complain and remain or praise and be raised-JM

You should want someone to b your better whole not half.

“So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.
“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today. (Matthew 6:31-34 NLt

So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing. (James 1:4 NLT)

Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors. So don't try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not deficient in any way. (James 1:2-4 MSG)

Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. (2 Corinthians 12:8, 9 NLT)

YOU don't have to get the attention of man. When GOD shines OUT of you.. it draws all PEOPLE to you. So & be easy. Keep those eyes focused.you know, sometimes-- my  hubby has a long day or he forgets to tell me I look nice. I don't get BENT out of shape. My EYES are on Christ.I don't put a ton of pressure on my husband to do this or that. I ... get on my face before God & stay desperate for GOD. HE is all I need.-heather lidnesy

Discipline is delayed gratification

God is teaching me a new level of spiritual warfare! LOVE! treat others the way He would and do what he has spoke to u and don't worry about why they may or may not do or may or may not think. Let God do the work! I'm just need to obey!

No, a true Jew is one whose heart is right with God. And true circumcision is not merely obeying the letter of the law; rather, it is a change of heart produced by God’s Spirit. And a person with a changed heart seeks praise from God, not from people. (Romans 2:29 NLT)

God works on the law of gradual growth-JM

Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. (Proverbs 13:12 NLT)

Affirm on purpose so that u can live a life of purpose!

You have to go through it to get to it! Shanel Cooper

When the Queen is ready the king will appear


Matthew 4:1-11Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted there by the devil. For forty days and forty nights he fasted and became very hungry.
During that time the devil came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become loaves of bread.”
But Jesus told him, “No! The Scriptures say,
‘People do not live by bread alone,
but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Then the devil took him to the holy city, Jerusalem, to the highest point of the Temple, and said, “If you are the Son of God, jump off! For the Scriptures say,
‘He will order his angels to protect you.
And they will hold you up with their hands
so you won’t even hurt your foot on a stone.’” Jesus responded, “The Scriptures also say, ‘You must not test the LORD your God.’”
Next the devil took him to the peak of a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. “I will give it all to you,” he said, “if you will kneel down and worship me.”
“Get out of here, Satan,” Jesus told him. “For the Scriptures say,
‘You must worship the LORD your God
and serve only him.’” Then the devil went away, and angels came and took care of Jesus. (Matthew 4:1-11 NLT)


If he doesn't take it away he gives u the grace to deal with it!

When u talk to other people about ur problems instead of God it causes u to have ungodly wisdom poured into you. So b/c what they are telling u may not b of God and what His desires are it can cause the problem most times to elevate instead of defusing it. When problems, hurt or disappointments come get on your face before God. Let Him speak to you through the Holy Spirit and give u peace. Then Stand on His promises and rest peace knowing that Godly wisdom will be brought to my life. Thank God I do not have to worry because God is taking care of all of my wants and needs! Everything is working out How he planned it. ME

Don't get made when God answers my prayers and it's not everything I envisioned. I need to  B content with what he has blessed me with and anything lacking is for my good. What use to be or what I imagined may not b what God wants right now. Learn to accept that and praise Him for the good He is working out on my behalf.  ME


So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you have to endure many trials for a little while. (1 Peter 1:6 NLT)

He never sinned,
nor ever deceived anyone. He did not retaliate when he was insulted,
nor threaten revenge when he suffered.
He left his case in the hands of God,
who always judges fairly. He personally carried our sins
in his body on the cross
so that we can be dead to sin
and live for what is right.
By his wounds
you are healed. Once you were like sheep
who wandered away.
But now you have turned to your Shepherd,
the Guardian of your souls. (1 Peter 2:22-25 NLT)

Be constantly renewed in the spirit of your mind(having fresh mental and spiritual attitude) Ephesians 4:23 AMP

You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue it and be its master.” (Genesis 4:7 NLT)

Make the best decisions you can and trust God with the results

Focus on the solution not the problem. Whatever u focus on becomes bigger.

Enjoy EVERYDAY life!


Put in  God remembrance of his promises

You said u would give me beuty for ashes

My end will be better than my beginning


God your words says u will make my name great.  Ephesians


Your disappointment does not have the power to dis-appoint you but may actually place you in a strategic position to be used by God.

It's a small thing to a giant-diamond (Crime Mob)